Real Love

How do you fall in love with another person? I mean, really and insanely truly in love? If there are enough people to choose from, or you are matched with one by experts, love should strike. But we've tried Tinder, Hinge and Feeld, and we didn't get into Married at First Sight. And we broke up with our boyfriends because we couldn't feel ourselves in the relationship. Now we're alone.