I am me - and me!

Frey thinks he is many things. He can be cool and loud, but also quiet and thoughtful. He sees his friend, Sune, getting down on his chin, but where does Frey's down go? It's fun to dress up and become someone else. – And Frey likes ruffles and tulle. But how does the world see him, and what does that mean for Frey's self-image?